A major key to being a successful man in picking a good woman, so it is important to learn about the red flags in women.
Before even considering a dating life, a true Man of Order must have a firm grasp on his personal finances, self-worth, and spiritual well-being.
The fastest way to derail your mission and spoil your climb to the top is to pick the wrong women to share your time and energy with. A partner in crime is one of the most important decisions you have to make, so choose wisely.
Here are a few archetypes to avoid in order to guide you in the right direction at your next intersection in life.
Picking a woman with a high level of education has many benefits, including having a higher earning potential and the possibility of having smarter children.
With that being said, there is a huge difference between being with someone that is educated as opposed to being with someone who is defined by their level of education.
Not only is it annoying to spend time with a person who uses outside accomplishments and material things to fill the voids in there personality, but it is also common for this particular red flagged woman to automatically think her level of education is a short of equalizer.
This personality type is better left in the world of academia and not one to share your time with. It’s hard enough being on the “same sheet of music with women.”
Don’t complicate your life with a know it all that might not be receptive to an exchange of ideas because she feels she has all the answers to the quiz of life!
The Conceited Slacker
This particular red flag believes that no matter if they are overweight, ugly, have bad attitude, jacked up teeth or bad feet, they can still land themself with prince charming.
This is what feminism has taught women and now there is a dating pool filled with women that have completely unrealistic expectations of what a man will and should provide for them.
So women who cannot get, or deserve prince charming will just believe there is something wrong with you!
Women like this feel empowered in their ignorance to single life thinking that their single status has nothing to do with them which in fact has everything to do with them! Their parents are particularly to blame for teaching their daughters that they are special and are entitled to the very best forever and always.
So women are consumed by the mindset that they are great in every way and if someone has a problem with them then it is fairly and squarely their problem only.
Women are biologically wired to only ever date up. This means a woman who is, in reality a 1 or a 2 will feel entitled to be with a man who is a 7 or an 8.
Know your worth as a man set your bar high. Stay away from lower-end women just because they have a working vagina.
Modesty and humility has become a rare trait in women nowadays.
The dating world of today has birthed a new archetype the social media narcissist! It is not uncommon for women to post half naked photos or even devolve into making a only fans account putting their virtue and goods onto the internet for all of gods creation to see.
Some even sell nudes for anyone willing to pay as if it isn’t a form of prostitution.
There is nothing wrong with being confident it is in some ways attractive, but there is something wrong with self obsession !
Women approach social media in different ways.
Sometimes women post something and wait for the likes and comments to roll in. At other times, they use social media as this false sense of reality which can lead to other red flag offenses.
For the sake of the list, this woman should be avoided!
The saying goes, “There is plenty of fish in the sea.”
If you happen to catch the archetype with your “fishing rod” ….(PAUSE) throw that fish back.
Imagine struggling to be on time to a event with her taking 100 million selfies, or having to have your every move meal and action on display for the world.
I always say, “If a woman is willing to sell nudes or her sexuality for money there’s nothing she won’t do for money.”
Someone with that lack of character is not someone you would ever trust with your time or your reputation.
The Spoiled Princess
Having a good relationship with your dad is obviously not a bad thing.
In my estimation, it is a bonus because women who love and respect their father are more likely to have a built in respect for the man they are dating.
However, this is not the next on our list of avoidable archetypes, THE SPOILED PRINCESS is.
You may ask what stereotypes or characteristics do you associate with daddy’s girls? For example, spoiled, clingy, high maintenance.
Acting like an entitled brat is a bad thing.
By spoiling her, Daddy greatly interferes with her identity development. She acts in line with what Daddy wants from her, often choosing career paths and other life choices which guarantee his consistent approval.
This means she is unable to truly know her own thoughts, feelings and opinions. She cannot tolerate boredom, being alone, or having to think for herself, which you don’t have time for!
When a father makes a “star” out of his daughter, he is giving her all she asks for without requiring her to earn it.
There is no discipline, there are no boundaries, and he feeds off of her being his “star” so he can play the role of the dedicated and doting father.
She learns she is the most important to the exclusion of all others, including wives, girlfriends and other siblings. She learns to control others, especially Daddy, with her false charm and selfish temper.
This makes for a manipulative mate!
Because she has never been disciplined, she lacks the ability to regulate her emotions. As an adult she becomes a “grown girl” not a “grown woman.”
She will also tend to get her father involved every time you have a minor disagreement. This is a very bad annoyance to deal with.
If you value your sanity, avoid this woman at all costs.
The Drama Queen
Drama with her momma, drama with her best friend, possible drama with her boss or worker.
This woman is characterized by drama everywhere she goes. She always thinks she’s been wronged, and she tells you all about it. But the drama isn’t necessarily the dangerous part in this kind of woman.
(Just to be clear: A woman isn’t “dramatic” just because she’s emotional. Emotions are a healthy thing.)
The problem is the underlying belief that it’s always everyone else’s fault. This woman is to be avoided because she doesn’t understand the meaning of taking ownership and responsibility of her life and relationships.
And trust me, that blame-game will quickly become a part of your relationship, too.
With that in mind, relationships aren’t about finding perfection—but it is about finding peace and value.
The result of dating a drama queen is unnecessary conflict and headaches.
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The wrong woman is easy to pin point if you pay attention to their behavior !
As I’ve always said, time spent developing your self will help you have the ability to avoid bad relationship choices.
If your are building wealth and gaining success, your options will be plentiful.
Make sure you have options because a true man of order always has options!