What’s The Difference?

When I first tell men about this particular part of Tantra, they look at me like I have three heads. We have been so conditioned about sex and how it works, that this idea just doesn’t make sense at first. Of course, Orgasm = Ejaculation. We know this to be true. We’ve seen it in every movie since we were kids.

However, the truth is that orgasm and ejaculation are two very different and separate things. Understanding this and developing it into a sexual practice can increase your powers as a man exponentially. The first step in this direction is to begin thinking about sex and orgasm in a different way.

Of course, a common genital ejaculation feels amazing. And sometimes, that’s just what is required. Especially, if you are attempting to create a child, there is no other way!

The Nature of Orgasm

There are many other orgasms that exist besides this simple form of genital ejaculation, however. You have brain orgasms, full-body energetic bliss orgasms, energy shooting up your spine and out the top of your head orgasms, and deep dissolution into complete love space with your partner orgasms. 

All of these are more potent, powerful, and ecstatic than the general genital spurt we are so conditioned to enjoy. The orgasmic possibilities are endless when you begin to separate these processes.

As a man, when you ejaculate, you are depleting your body of vital sexual energy. Afterward, you feel lethargic, empty, and often ready for sleep. The possibility exists, as you deepen your Tantric practice, to bypass this ejaculation response and move toward a richer, more spiritual and erotic energetic frequency.

“As a man, when you ejaculate, you are depleting your body of vital sexual energy.”

How Often Should You Ejaculate?

One way to begin to become more conscious of this is to decide how often you will ejaculate. There have been a few studies done, none of which draw any definite conclusions that deferring ejaculation for days, weeks, or even months, is detrimental to your health. 

On the contrary, ancient teachings of Tao and Tantra expound on the health benefits of semen retention. And once you start to feel the difference for yourself, you will be amazed that you didn’t start doing this before. Instead of spurting this incredible energy out of your penis in ejaculation, you can move this energy throughout your body, mind, and spirit, cultivating incredible health and life-enhancing vibrancy.

“You can move this energy throughout your body, mind, and spirit, cultivating incredible health and life-enhancing vibrancy.”

Let’s say, presently, you are where most men are. There is no separation between orgasm and ejaculation, and this happens almost daily. Perhaps you have sex with your girlfriend one day, then the next day she’s gone. So you watch porn and masturbate to ejaculation. The next day is super busy so you don’t really think about it. Then you are with your girlfriend again, and the whole cycle repeats itself.

When you are just starting out in Tantra, a good goal to set for yourself is ejaculating once per week. You can have sex with a partner or masturbate as much as you wish. Just don’t ejaculate. As you get close, slow down, focus on your breath, and move the energy away from your genitals to the rest of your body. 

Attract Your Ideal Lovers With Energy!

At first this will seem very challenging and weird, but the more you practice the easier and more natural it will become. You will also start to notice that your sexual energy and testosterone begin increasing in massive quantities. Your body will feel stronger, you will have more vibrancy and life, and your lover will very much appreciate your newfound powers. If you don’t have a lover now, don’t worry. As you cultivate your sexual energy and learn to project it into the world around you, sexual partners will be attracted to you in droves!

As a man, this is foundational knowledge and practice to go deeper into Tantra. Beyond ejaculation lies powerful levels of meditation, visualization, transmutation, yoga, and deep spiritual connectedness to the infinite. It all starts here, with gaining control of your sexual self, and learning to understand, appreciate, and move energy in a different way. Don’t just let this incredible energy spurt out of your penis. Use it and cultivate it to become the superhuman that you know you are capable of being.

“It all starts here, with gaining control of your sexual self, and learning to understand, appreciate, and move energy in a different way.”

Explore and Enjoy!

This is Level One for the Tantric Male. So get started, and you will start to feel the doors and windows opening up to a whole new world. Be on the lookout for the next chapters to take your Tantric practice to new powerful levels!

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See you in the next chapter.

Andy Eversole, C.H.

HypnoEarthAcademy.com

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